When A Heart Speaks It All

From My Girlfriend

2008-09-29T08:55:00.000-07:00

Oooophs! I'm not a lesbian... hahaha... Just keep on reading and know why I call her "My Girlfriend". :D

While I was reorganizing my room last weekend, I scanned the contents in my friendship box and one that really made me emotional that day was the following messages:

TO MY GIRLFRIENDS
(Joanne, Mabel, Marnie, Milfe & Nilda)

Some people come into our lives and quickly go;
Some people move our souls to dance; they awaken us to new understanding
With the passing whisper of their wisdom;
Some people make the sky more beautiful to gaze upon.

Friends share simple, ordinary times in our lives,
Moments that become memories that stay in our hearts forever
... And we will never, ever be the same.

Friendship is strange being...
It is by chance we met, by choice we became friends;
We find ourselves telling each other the deepest details of our lives,
things we don't even share with our families who raised us.

But what is a friend? A confidant? A lover? A fellow email junkie?
A shoulder to cry on? An ear to listen? A heart to feel?
A friend is ALL of these things and more;
No matter where we met, I call you "friend":
A word so small... yet so large in feeling... a word filled with emotions.

Once the package of friendship has been opened,
It can never be completely closed;
It is a constant book always waiting to be read... and enjoyed.

We may have disagreements,
We may argue, we may concern one another...
Friendship is a unique bond that lasts through it all.

A part of me is put into my friends: some is my humor, some is my listening ear,
Some is real life experience, some is my romanticism, but with all, it is FRIENDSHIP...
Thanks for making a difference in my life!

THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH for being a part of me, for brightening my days, for simply just being there. It's such a comfort and a real pleasure to know I have you girls around. You're one of the best gifts I've been blessed with. A s I will now be living with the reality of my dreams, I just want you all to know that I love you. I am here for you whenever and whatever happens. Nothing will ever change with this rich and resplendent friendship we're sharing. A s we continue to trot to this beautiful life, just always remember the lessons, not the pains, and that we have each other through the best and the worst. You take care of yourself, do things you enjoy, be the person that you wanted to be. Someday, somehow, you too will realize that nothing is impossible, that dreams do really come true. God bless you all always. Cheers to our friendship... Cheers to us!!!

Always, Margo :)

The said words were printed in a special paper and was given to each of us "her girlfriends" during the bridal shower we prepared for her. Ohhh! How I'm miss all of them already and I'm looking forward for our next get together...

Marnie, Me, Margo & Nilda @ Casa Verde during Margo's Birthday

Marnie, Nilda, Me, Margo and her hubby Rovem @ 2nd Street

Jome (Marnie's hubby), Marnie, Nilda, Me and Margo @ 2nd Street

Margo, Vem-vem (Margo's son), Me and Milfe @ Rai Rai Ken

Nilda, Me, Mabel and Janpoy (mabel's nephew) @ Mabel's place

What are your favorite pastimes?

2008-09-26T00:33:00.000-07:00

What are your favorite pastimes? Mine are reading magazines and books, blogging, joining discussions at social networking sites, jogging, belly dancing, surfing the net, meeting other people, watching movies & tv, sleeping and a lot more. These activities exposed me to new thoughts, ideas and lines that stick to my mind. Like for the series Grey's Anatomy. Was able to come up the following quote which I put together from one of the casts discussions:

We human beings need a lot of things to feel alive like family, love, friends, sex, material things and so on. But we only need one thing to actually be alive and it is a beating heart. When our heart is threatened, we respond in one or two ways. We either run or we attack. There is a scientific term for this - fight or flight. It's instinct. We can't control it or can we?

Also from the thread I created at blogcatalog discussion, What have you learned recently? . I got a lot of good replies there and the one that really striked in my mind was what newward shared that it's the fear of disappointment that prevents us from having high expectations. Very true right? She was able to realize that through the following quote the she stumbled across many times:

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness,that frightens us. We ask ourselves, "Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous"? Actually, who are you not to be? Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

Friendship and Best Blogs Award

2008-09-25T17:41:00.000-07:00

Thanks to my dearest friend Mabel for these awards. I really appreciate them and it's such an honor to accept these and I would like to take this opportunity also to thank you for being such a real blogger friend. Hope and pray we will meet in person someday. :)

I would like to share this award to my special friends to let you know I am delighted to read your writings and stories. The world of blogging has opened a new door for me to expand my horizon in discovering new things and meeting wonderful people.A bunch of thanks to you guys! Some of you might not be too enthusiastic about this whole idea of award distribution- but if you help these awards to propagate, it will be greatly appreciated. Let's give them more attention and let's spread some more love to the world! :)

I would like to give these awards to of course Mabel, Michy, Anniniput, Gabgab, Stephen, Blogmyblogger and YOU! :)

Blogcatalog - Popular Discussion Strikes 2

2008-09-24T00:57:00.001-07:00

I'm glad that for the second time around, my recent post What have you learned recently? is currently featured as one of the popular discussions at Blogcatalog as you can see below:

Realizing that disappointment is caused by unmet expectations and disappointment is cured by revamped expectations lead me to create this topic at BC Discussions. And I'm glad a lot of blogcatalog users find this discussion really interesting that they shared their insights and what they've learned recently. And I must admit, I truly learned a lot from their replies. One statement that really strikes me is from newward. She said that, "I've learned that it's our fears that hold us back. It's the fear of disappointment that prevents us from having high expectations." Very true! And she shared the following inspiring words that she stumbled across many times:

Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness,that frightens us. We ask ourselves, "Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous"? Actually, who are you not to be? Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.

What a great source of inspiration! :) And if you want to learn more or if you have learned something lately, please do visit and post your comment on my thread What have you learned recently? at Blogcatalog and be one of the following existing blogcatalog's talkatives on my thread:

annaswan of The Written Word
DocNicole of Kitchen Table Medicine
offendedblogger of The Tetons and Beyond and THE OFFENDED BLOGGER
fated82 of Oganize Your Life For The Better
LGramlich of The Dreaming Tree
ekim941 of RandomRamblings
poisonapplesauce of Just Lorelei
olgatravelingbra of Olga, the Traveling Bra
msbaby of UNIQUE BABY GIFT BASKET and PARTY IDEAS and CELEBRITY MOM & BABY GEAR BLOG
Jeunelle of Jeunelle Foster Web Estates
thefly of Placebo Effect and After Dinner Mint
drdental of Dental Plan and Dental Care Tips
stephenams of Writing and Speaking Blog, Home Improvement Tips, Shopping Tips and Reviews, and Your Best Source for Food and Drink Recipes
Arcticulates of Arcticulates
gabgab of Guaranteed Soul Mates Through Animals
hadrian1407 of 2012 Apocalypse
mrbastard of Mr Bastard's Blog
newward of Web Site Design and Internet Marketing, The Phenomenal Entrepreneur, and Renttropolis Property Management
NikkiCorrupt of nici corrupt
Theresa111 of Adventures of Lady Laura and Sleeping Kitten Dancing Dog
nepalijournal of Nepali Journal
drjay1966 of Yoga for Cynics
blogmyblogger of Self Help and Self Improvement Tips, Family and Parenting Guide and Tips, Real Estate Information Resource and Marketing Articles and Advertising Advice
usborneactivities of Childrens Activities with Usborne Books
starcasm of Starcasm
ffprod66 of ffprod66
alwayswinner786 of Tips for delecious and healthy cooking

Thank you to all of you guys. Who knows we will be one of the next BlogCatalog's Most Talkative: Still Talking like offendedblogger and ekim941 as posted by Daniel. LOL

Picking the Right Wedding Invitation

2008-09-21T17:47:00.000-07:00

How do I choose the right wedding invitation? What to look for when choosing the right wedding invitation for your own wedding... Read More

How To Be an Understanding Girlfriend

2008-09-19T19:09:00.000-07:00

1. Learn to identify your different moods.
2. Recognize your fears and insecurities.
3. Ask for forgiveness when you have made a mistake.
4. Know that everybody can think and act in different ways.
5. Love yourself and you will learn to love whoever is around you.
6. Let him know you are supporting him all the time.
7. Do not constantly criticize him.
8. Respect his own space.
9. Do not push the wrong buttons.
10. Do not judge him.
11. Learn to know his points of view.
12. Do not play at being a mind reader; be a listener.

death chocolate moments with friends

2008-09-17T01:28:00.003-07:00

Life is made even sweeter and tastier, full of fun and pleasures both in good times and the not so good times because of my friends...

This was taken during Margo's birthday last January 10, 2008 at Casa Verde, Cebu City.

when you look me in the eyes

2008-09-15T20:06:00.000-07:00

Just thought of sharing this beautiful love song “when you look me in the eyes”. It’s one of my current favorite songs especially this piano version. Unfortunately, I don’t know yet the name of the singer of this version… Anyway, here's the song:

When You Look Me In The Eyes

If the heart is always searching
Can you ever find a home?
I’ve been looking for that someone,
I’ll never make it on my own.
Dreams can’t take the place of loving you,
There’s gotta be a million reasons why it’s true

When you look me in the eyes,
And tell me that you love me.
Everything’s alright,
When you’re right here by my side.
When you look me in the eyes,
I catch a glimpse of heaven.
I find my paradise,
When you look me in the eyes.

How long will I be waiting,
To be with you again
Gonna tell you that I love you,
In the best way that I can.
I can’t take a day without you here,
You’re the light that makes my darkness disappear.

More and more, I start to realize,
I can reach my tomorrow,
I can hold my head high,
And it’s all because you’re by my side.

When you look me in the eyes,
And tell me that you love me.
Everything’s alright,
When you’re right here by my side.
When I hold you in my arms
I know that it’s forever
I just gotta let you know
I never wanna let you go

Cause when you look me in the eyes.

And tell me that you love me.
Everything’s alright,
When you’re right here by my side.
When you look me in the eyes,
I catch a glimpse of heaven.
I find my paradise,
When you look me in the eyes.

Dealing With Conflict: The Ups And Downs

2008-09-14T17:47:00.000-07:00

Conflict is unavoidable, as it arises in every relationship. The main concern lies not on what it is about but how couples deal with it... Read More

8 Random Things About Me

2008-09-13T03:09:00.000-07:00

For those who are interested to know more about me, be thankful to Mabel for tagging me to post 8 random thing about me...

1. The girl in my background pic is no other than me... and here's the original pic:

This was taken at Chez André by a very close friend while waiting for our orders.

2. I''m cuddly, sweet, and a happy person!.... little things can make me happy... I love to smile and smile... and laugh and laugh and laugh hahahah! and just have fun with people... but hey, I know when to have fun, and I also know when to get serious... Here's my usual smile:

3. I love and enjoy listening to music though music hates me... hahaha... I belong to a family of singers but sadly I'm not one of them :( . I grew up believing to myself that I have a good voice 'coz my sibs and parents appreciated my voice when I was in my elementary grades. I was very confident that time singing infront of a crowd... I was shakened how terrible my voice was when I reached 18 when my Dad requested me to sing with him. During my turn, Dad whispered me "Ayaw na lang og kanta Jo! (means... better not sing Jo!)" hahaha... It was his very first time to hear me singing 'coz I stayed & studied high school far away from them... weeeehhh... that's when I realized how out of tune I am... hahaha... but it doesn't matter, 'coz i'm very good if comes to dancing... LOL

4. I have a lot of true and good friends and will be posting our pics here later on... But for now, I'll just introduce you my bestfriend, my eating partner, my chitchat chum, my playmate, my travelling bud, my colleague, my shopping buddy, my crying shoulder, one of my sources of happiness, and the list goes on... :) Her name is Margo and I miss her so much 'coz she's currently on leave to give birth early next month. Below is our recent pic:

5. I've been hooked up reading inspirational books and reflecting about my life before going to bed. I make a point to do it every day even if I have only 20 or 30 minutes.

6. When I start feeling too busy like my life is spinning out of control, I automatically make time to pray and talk to Him even just a few minutes. It clears my mind and helps me to be more productive.

7. My top three favorite foods are ampalaya, peanuts and dark chocolates.

8. The following character best represent me in terms of my personality and if comes to "matters of the heart" hehehe... :

Rinoa Heartilly

Now I tag 8 people!

Simple Rules:
1. Each player starts with eight random facts/habits about themselves.
2. People who are tagged need to write their own blog about their eight things and post these rules.
3. At the end of your blog, you need to choose eight people to get tagged and list their names.
4. Don't forget to leave them a comment telling them they're tagged, and to read your blog.

I want to know more about:

Blogmyblogger
Gaga
Stephen
Anniniput
Joytoy
Winkii
Princess Stephanie
Macky

---Joanne
Relationship Talks
News, Society and Opinion
Health Talks
Finance Talks
Arts and Entertainment Talks

naked is way cooler

2008-09-12T02:52:00.000-07:00

If you got married to your most best guy friend, would you be happy?

♥ hahaha... mayaman sa superlative... hmmmm... if that's the case? i'l be the MOST BEST HAPPIEST bride... bleeeehhh talo ka! triple superlative ako... hahaha

What did you do this afternoon?

♥ answering this survey wyl eating lunch..

When was the last time you smiled?

♥ right at this moment =)

Can you use chopsticks?

♥ YES. maayo ko anang chopstick game..

Who was the last person you slept next to?

♥ nilda i think.

Do you still talk to the person you fell hardest for?

♥ yeah

Do you remember what you were like a year ago?

♥ emotionally hurting.

Do you have unlimited texting?

♥ nope. i don't have time for texting except when needed...

Ever cried because of happiness?

♥ yes

Anything you're giving up on?

♥ almost there... hehehe

Whose pool did you last swim in?

♥ roxas park

Which girl's house was the last you spent the night at?

♥ my godmother's house

What makes you laugh?

♥ steph's reactions! LOL

How was last week?

♥ busy...alarming (hahaha)... exciting... exhausting... boring... :D

What could you go for right this second?

♥ *h***h :)

What are your plans for the morning?

♥ ohhh it's saturday again..! was requested to attend a family reunion... :)

Do you ever turn off your cellphone?

♥ when needed...

Do you like certain romantic cliches?

♥ yeah... like... a walk on the beach or rose petals leading somewhere... hahaha ki-ata nako woi... LOL

Where is your best friend at this exact moment?

♥ cebu

Do you have a ceiling fan located in your room?

♥ nope...

What is the worst thing that has happened to you lately?

♥ if naa pa worst sa worst... mao na na... hahaha

What color is your car?

♥ invisible... hahaha

What sounds are you currently hearing?

♥ the song "me and you" :)

Have you told anybody you loved them today?

♥ wala pa... karon na lang sa mga makabasa ani "I LOVE YOU!" hehehe...

Do you miss anyone?

♥ yeah... ang mga wala diri nga toa didto :D hehehe

Are you growing apart from someone close?

♥ sadly YES! :( ... circumstances beyond my control... huhhhhh! ngagho na lang ta ani... hehehe

Where was your default pic taken?

♥ where do you think?

Have you ever liked anyone on your top friends?

♥ hahaha... ayo na lang kay gitangtang na nako akong top friends... bitaw, of course i like and love all my top friends... samot if i'm on top of them... top of their priority friends... hehehe

How much are you on the phone daily?

♥ shld i say priceless? hahaha...

Are you in a good mood?

♥ yes, yes

Have you ever been in love?

♥ again???

Do you love your life?

♥ of corz... worth living despite of all the asungotz... hahaha

Do your parents like your number one?

♥ ask me again this question a year from now... :D

Who do you trust with EVERYTHING?

♥ God

What will you be doing in 3 hours?

♥ still happily working...

What were you doing at midnight last night?

♥ dreaming... hahaha

What is your background on your phone?

♥ my pic that says "eyes on me!" hahaha

Where is your favorite place to shop?

♥ somewhere interesting...

What is your favorite thing to wear?

♥ naked is way cooler... hahahaha... kagimbal gimbal jd... bitaw, depende sa lakaw or occasion woi... but one thing for sure... a smile on my face! hehehe...

Do you think you are a good driver?

♥ i can be one in some ways... hehehe

Who was the last person you talked to on the telephone?

♥ a girl from pldt...

Were you happy when you woke up today?

♥ yup...

Are you ticklish?

♥ ask the blind massager... hahaha

First thing you do when you wake up?

♥ mobangon gud! hahaha... bitaw, i pray...

What's on your bedroom floor right now?

♥ bed, computer table, luggage bags and more...

Ever talked to someone that was drunk?

♥ wrong grammar ai...hehehe! well, yep...

Do you trust people easily?

♥ not anymore

Do any of your jeans have rips, tears, and holes in them?

♥ naa...style & by accident... hahaha

How many pillows on your bed?

♥ 7...hehe

Are you single?

♥ what do you care? hahaha

Do you have a crush on someone?

♥ si HARM pa rin.

what do you think?

2008-09-11T23:45:00.000-07:00

just thought of making this blog site something personal... like adding some pics, posting more about me, sharing my thoughts and my feelings, what i am into or anything what i feel and think like sharing... what do you think? sounds interesting? but of course my posts will still be in accordance to my main topic here which is about relationship talks... would love to hear any suggestions or comments from you guys... how to make this blogsite more interesting... :)

probe me and know my heart... try me and know my thoughts...

2008-09-10T00:17:00.000-07:00

Can you fill this out without lying?

- go... go... go...!

What's the last thing you put in your mouth?

- vitamins

Where was your default picture taken?

- office 08-08-08... off to a wedding

Can you play guitar hero?

- nope

Last time you walked further than a block?

- yesterday. walked from office to bq mall

Name someone that made you laugh yesterday?

- father b... he's really hilarious... intellectually stimulating... and a bit scaryyyyyyy... hahaha

How late did you stay up last night and why?

- past 2 am. read a very interesting book that i just can't stop & sleep.

Ever been kissed under a fireworks?

- nope... but looking forward... hahaha

Do you believe exes can be friends?

- in my case... yeah...

Do you prefer to call or text?

- video call... hehehe

When was the last time you cried really hard?

- july.

What was the last thing someone bought for you?

- grapes from rj's mom. :)

Who took your profile picture?

- yours truly hehehe

Can you live a day without TV?

- sure

Are you mad about anything?

- nope.

Do you think relationships are ever really worth it?

- of course. as melly said "you get to learn even if doesnt work out." - very true!

Last time you spent the night at someone's house?

- hontanosas residence for a dinner...

When was the last time you were

disappointed?

- hmmm...

Where do you wish you were right now?

- where my heart is... :)

What should you be doing right now?

- working. hehe

Are you a bad influence?

- just expect the unexpected from me... :D

Are you more of an individual or an outgoing person?

- i'm flexible... :)

Would you share a drink with a stranger?

- NO... NO... NO...

Last hug?

- my ninang's mom @ the airport...

Have you ever thrown shoes on a telephone wire?

- nope

How do you feel about your life right now?

- exciting... esp now that i am open to trying something new ... hahaha...

Do you hate anyone?

- nope

what time is it?

- 9:32 am

what are you wearing?

- dainty white top and jeans

what will you be doing in the next 2 hours?

- still happily working

anything bothering you at the moment?

- yep... =)

expecting something this month?

- yep! :)

The thing you really really wanted to buy but you seem cant?

- house and lot

whos the last person to send you a comment?

- don't ask.. just check my profile... :)

how is he/she related to you?

- a very very dear friend

what's on your mind now?

- a lot... =)

your last song syndrome line goes like..?

- if the heart is always searching, can you ever find a home? i've been looking for that someone... i never make it on my own... :)

where have you heard it?

- right now... right here... and right here in my heart - beating! huhhhhh

would you want to have a tattoo?

- nope.

what else do you have on the table,other than your pc?

- inspirational book

what's your best day of the week?

- any day basta naay surprises... :D

Is He Really Just A friend Or More?

2008-09-07T19:36:00.000-07:00

If a guy is showing you these signs, is he into you or is he really just a friend? This has been a common mind boggler among many women, but the answer may still seem confusing all the more. Men and their many signs. More often, you cannot really decipher whether a guy’s actions show that he wants to be more than just a friend or if he is only treating you just like the rest of his girl friends. But really, are there no-brainers that tell you he is interested? Or is he really just one of the boys?... Read More

Popular Discussions at Blog Catalog

2008-09-04T20:08:00.000-07:00

It's a good feeling to be featured today as one of the Popular Discussions at Blog Catalog as you can see bellow:

My discussion "Describe your Blog Catalog Icon. What's the story behind that image?" and of course my fellow BC users put me into that. My heartfelt thanks to all of you guys for joining in. I do appreciate and enjoy reading your replies. :)

Are you single and dating?

2008-09-04T20:02:00.000-07:00

Are you single and dating? If you’re looking to find that special person, then it’s time to look into more serious single’s dating advice... Read More

Love Is The Sweetest Feeling

2008-09-03T18:51:00.000-07:00

Love is always associated to happiness, but as it wears out, heartaches take over. And then you get up, move on and start over...
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The Dark Side Of Instant Messaging

2008-09-02T22:45:00.000-07:00

In this society emphasized on quick exchange of information, and thus, communication, instant messaging can have a negative effect on you social relations... Read More

restoring broken relationships

2008-09-01T21:45:00.000-07:00

in repairing a relationship, it's essential to realize that no friendship is perfect, no marriage is perfect, no person is perfect. with the resolve that you are going to make a relationship work, you can develop peace treaties of love and tolerance and harmony to transform a difficult situation into something beautiful...
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Getting Over A Lost Love

2008-09-01T00:22:00.001-07:00

Getting over a lost love is a painful phase. Yet, it makes one become stronger, more self-assured and beneficially experienced...
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Save Your Relationship - Find Out How

2008-08-28T22:16:00.000-07:00

Do you have problems in your relationship? Everybody does, but do not think that a break-up is the solution. There are many ways to save a relationship. Here are some tips...
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If A Man Wants You

2008-08-22T18:41:00.000-07:00

LADIES PLEASE DON'T SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS
MEN KINDLY TAKE NOTE

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.

If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.

Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.

Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to be.

Slower is better.

Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.

If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve

then heck no, you can't "be friends." A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.

Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself

a year later for staying when things are not better.

The only person you can control in a relationship is you.

Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.

He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,

Why would he treat you any differently?

Always have your own set of friends separate from his.

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.

If something bothers you, speak up.

Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.

You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.

Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has

more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god.

! He is a man, nothing more nothing less.

Never let a man define who you are.

Never borrow someone else's man.

Oh Lord! If he cheated wit! h you, he'll cheat on you.

A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two-way street.

You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about

baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists

of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.

Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and your

always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.

Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.

Keep him in your radar but get to know others.

Share this with other ladies..... You'll make someone SMILE, another

RETHINK her choices, and another woman PREPARE.

They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate

them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.

BY THE WAY, THIS WAS WRITTEN BY A MAN, SO TAKE A HINT..............

SMILE

2008-08-13T23:19:00.001-07:00

How far are you, how close am I
I know your words are true and I don't feel them inside
Still I believe you'll never leave
So where are you now

You're all I have, You're all I know
Your breath is breathing in my soul
Still I am gasping, aching, asking
Where are you now

Cause I just wanna be with You
I just want this waiting to be over
I just want to be with You
And it helps to know the Day is getting closer

Every minute takes an hour
Every inch feels like a mile
Til I won't have to imagine
And I finally get to see You smile

My journey's here, but my heart is There
So I dream and wait, and keep the faith, while You prepare
Our destiny, til You come back for me
Oh, please make it soon!

Cause I just wanna be with You
I just want this waiting to be over
I just want to be with You
And it helps to know the Day is getting closer

Every minute takes an hour
Every inch feels like a mile
Til I won't have to imagine
And I finally get to see You smile

I just wanna be with You
I just want this waiting to be over
I just want to be with You
And it helps to know the Day is getting closer

I just wanna be with You
I just want this waiting to be over
I just want to be with You
And it helps to know the Day is getting closer

Every minute takes an hour
Every inch feel like a mile
Til I won't have to imagine
And I finally get to see You

Every minute takes an hour
Every inch feel like a mile
Til I won't have to imagine
And I finally get to see You smile

My Journey Is Here, But My Heart Is There

2008-08-11T22:46:00.000-07:00

1) How old do you look?
- most people think i look younger for my age... ahemmmm... mahadlok cguro sila mapareha ilang ilong ni pinocchio... hahaha
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2) Where is the person who has your heart at this moment?
- my journey is here, but my heart is there =)
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3) Are you waiting for something?
- I dream and wait, and keep the faith...
.
4) What were you doing at ten last night?
- sleeping...
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5) Did you sleep in your own bed last night?
- yep.
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6) Can you handle the truth?
- if you cant handle the truth, then you're not worth it.
.
7) Did you cry today?
- nope
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8) Do you hate the last person you had a conversation with?
- thanks margo for the belly laughs a while ago... i hate you to be on leave =( will really2x miss you friend! huhuhuhhh... but all my best to you, rovem, vem-vem and your coming 2nd baby.
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9) Is there anyone who understands your relationship status?
- most do... but i don't... hahahaha
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10) In love?
- when i look into his eyes... LOL
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12) What was the last thing you drank?
- water
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13) Last person you hugged?
- ninang's mom
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14) Who do you most look like in your family?
- they said i look like my d**???
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15) Did you have a dream last night?
- yes... a very funny one...
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16) Whats a memory you would relive over and over?
- july 2000
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17) If you could have something right now, what would it be?
- my d**
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18) Does anyone call you babe?
- many years ago!!! hahaha...
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19) Where does most of your family live?
- bohol
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20) Have you ever seen somebody get hit by a car?
- on tv, yeah.
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21) Have you ever thought about getting your nose pierced?
- nope
.
22) Have you ever fallen in love with someone before you met them?
- David James Elliot - my HARM... ako lang nakabalo uyab mi for 9 years... hahahahahaha
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23) Have you ever had a panic attack?
- yes... a bloody incident!
.
24) Want someone back in your life?
who?
- yes... my d**
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25) Are you good at giving directions?
- try me... di ba samot ka og kawala... hahahah
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24) When was the last time you cried really, really hard?
- the day i found out he had been cheating on us.
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25) Who do you miss more than anybody?
- him =)
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26) Ever licked someone's cheek?
- hahahahahahahahhhh... what a question!
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27) What is your favorite thing to eat with peanut butter?
-bread
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28) Where were you on July 16th, 2007?
- it's monday... 8 days after my 27th birthday... hurting and trying to move on... hehehe
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29) What body parts attracts you most in a person?
- intelligence, eyes, height, heart
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30) Have you ever kissed anyone who's name started with an M?
- YES - Mama... hahaha..., Margo, Magna, Mabel, Milfe, Marnie, Marisyl and some very close friends who's name started w/ an M... hehehe
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31) Do you prefer warm or cold weather?
- cold
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32) What do you currently hear right now?
- my fave playlist
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33) Does someone like you right now?
- of course! luckily daghan sila and 100% confirmed! hahahahahahaha...
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34) What are your nicknames?
- jojo, j4, joanne, jianne, anne

I want to tag everyone and know more about you. =)

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WELCOME

2008-07-23T20:42:00.000-07:00

Welcome to When A Heart Speaks It All! I'll be posting here anything about matters of the heart. =) I hope you can learn and of course can have fun while reading thru this blog. If you would like to share or tell me something... please do, I would really appreciate that. =) Just hit Comments to post your message and I'll get back to you! ;-)